The following is my honest review of the Ebook Text and Phone Game by dating coach Kezia Noble. The aim of the book is to teach men how to teach men to turn those phone numbers into dates. It also promises to stop that thing that happens to guys sometimes where after a couple of texts back and forth the girl stops responding. Here is what I thought of the Ebook.
Chapter 1 – Introduction
Kezia (Noble) starts the first chapter off by telling us that she has read a fair amount of info out there in the dating world relating to texting girls you like. While some of it was very good a lot of it would make the guy come across as a complete weirdo. Obviously that is not an outcome any of us want.
She then moves on to stating that if a girl respects you and is attracted to you she will reply to the dullest, most unimaginative texts with glee. The problem arises when the attraction isn’t quite there yet (or even there at all).
That is what this Ebook is setting out to teach us. Kezia isn’t concerned with texting those girls who already like us, they do not need any effort to get them out on a date. It is the girls that you cold approached of the street and only spoke to for three minutes before getting the digits. She may not like you yet but the rest of the book is aimed at changing that!
Chapter 2 – Why Text Game Is So Important
Kezia takes us through the many reasons why girls give out their phone numbers to guys. This quote sums up the chapter “Just because a woman makes up her mind to give you her number, this does not means she has made up her mind to see you again“. What you say via text or talking on the phone will be what makes or breaks whether you see the girl again.
Chapter 3 – Mistakes and What Not To Do
Next Kezia gives a few examples of what the typical guy does when he gets a girls phone number. Then she goes over why this is a bad idea (it is bland and boring).
Chapter 4 – What’s Wrong With The Standard Message
The message behind this chapter is: Do not give the girl too much value until she has earned it. Do not come across as overly excited to have met her. Kezia then gives us some more examples of bad texts she has received that literally made me cringe. Try and keep your texts approximately the same length as hers.
Chapter 5 – Why Phone Calls Are Better Than Texts
This section is all about why a phone call is much more powerful than a text. Essentially it is a much more of a solid commitment when a date has been arranged by a phone call. This is because when someone has verbally agreed to do something they are significantly more likely to follow through with it. It is all psychological.
Chapter 6 – The Different Kinds Of Text
Kezia then goes over the different types of text you can send to a girl and what each of them is supposed to be used for. The different types of text are:
- The Ping Text
- The Nickname Text
- The Situational Observational Text
- The Question Text
All these different types of text has a specific purpose. The Ping text is a way of grabbing a girls attention and forces her to respond to you instantly. The Nickname text is a way to playfully tease a girl, but for this text to work you need to have given her a nickname when you first got her number. The Situational Observational text is a way at letting the girl get a glimpse into your fun amazing life (without inviting her to join) e.g “I just had the most amazing day indoor climbing with some cool people, how was your day?”. The Question text is like a Ping text but makes more logical sense for example “I was thinking about something you said the other night, are you a Scorpio?”.
The idea of all four types of text is to get the girl interested and get her responding to you.
Chapter 7 – Phone Calls
Now we get to the interesting bit, the phone call. Why don’t guys generally just pick up the phone and call her before texting? It usually boils down to something like this:
- I might run out of things to say.
- It might get uncomfortable.
- She might be busy.
- Or a whole host of other reasons.
Kezia runs through the times when you should Never phone a girl.
- Thursday, Friday and Saturday night. She will most likely be out with her friends on at least one of those nights.
- Monday to Friday between the hours of 9 to 5. She will most likely be at work or university.
From her experience Kezia suggests calling between 9PM to 11PM Sunday to Wednesday. This is because most girls will be bored around this time and will probably be just using Facebook or surfing the Internet. So it will be a perfect time to call and give her a distraction. She also says that you should keep the phone call fairly short and keep the end goal in mind at all times; getting the girl to meet up with you.
You also need to convey that you are high value and your time is precious and limited. Also remember the longer you wait to arrange the date the less likely it is to happen.
Chapter 8 – Making the Arrangement
This chapter is focused on getting the date arrange. Kezia goes over how to add in some hook points that you can use to set up the date. It is also a great way to get an insight into what she likes and doesn’t like before you arrange the date. This will make it ten times easier to get her to agree to go on a date with you.
Chapter 9 – Precious Time: The Importance Of Being A Busy Man
We move on to the importance of being busy and having a social life. Imagine this you arrange a date with someone and they are available every day and are never busy. It makes them look like they do not have a social life and have no friends. This may not be true at all but regardless it isn’t a good look for anyone.
So Kezia suggests telling a girl two days you definitely cannot make as you already have plans as it will appear more high value and as a result a lot more attractive.
Chapter 10 – Dealing With Flakes
The aim of this chapter is to explain what to do if a girl is busy and can not make it to the arranged date. Kezia explains the best course of action of action is to come across as completely unaffected by it (even if you are secretly raging inside). Just calmly rearrange the date for another time. The most important thing to take away from this chapter are:
- Come across as unaffected if she cancels.
- Do not at all costs become angry or sulky. It will make you look like a childish loser.
Chapter 11 _ Frequently Asked Questions
In the final chapter Kezia clears up some questions you may have had while reading the Ebook such as:
Q: What do I do if she doesn’t answer the phone when I call her?
Or
Q: If I get her number during the day when should I call her?
All these types of questions are answered in this final chapter.
Pros
If you are clueless about texting girls then this is an excellent place to start.
If you find that a girl stops replying after a few texts this will really help.
Cons
Doesn’t give me much insight for how to keep the conversation for over a longer period of time if you are both really busy due to work for example. But with practise you will overcome this naturally.
In conclusion
If you struggle to get girls out on dates after getting their phone numbers then this guide will definitely help you. You will go on a lot more dates as a result so you may get less free time.


















